Disaster Planning

Disaster Planning

We are like a tree during a storm.  If you look at the top of a tree, you may have the impression that the tree can be blown away or that the branches can be broken anytime, but if you direct your attention to the trunk of the tree and become aware that the tree is...
The Importance of “Grit”

The Importance of “Grit”

Ned Pepper: “I call that bold talk for a one-eyed fat man.” Rooster Cogburn: “Fill your hands you sonofabitch.”                                                                     Charles Portis, True Grit True Grit is a 1968 novel by Charles Portis.  It is told from...
The Importance of Words

The Importance of Words

Before you speak, let your words Pass through three gates. At the first gate, ask yourself, ‘Is it true?’ At the second ask, ‘Is it necessary?’ At the third gate ask ‘Is it kind?’ -Sufi saying As human beings, we are all a work in progress. What would happen if a...
What We Can Learn From Chickens

What We Can Learn From Chickens

William Muir of Purdue University has studied the behavior of chickens.  He was interested in productivity.  It is easy to measure in chickens because you just count the eggs.  He wanted to know what could make his chickens more productive, so he devised an...
Managing Expectations

Managing Expectations

An aspect of my role as an attorney representing persons in the process of divorce is to manage their expectations.  This is not always a simple task. Life is a journey.  In one’s youth, it is many times a journey of light.  That is, one experiences the positive...
THE LAW PRACTICE OF ABRAHAM LINCOLN

THE LAW PRACTICE OF ABRAHAM LINCOLN

Before he ever became President, Abraham Lincoln was a successful attorney.  Summaries of his cases can be found here.  These summaries make for interesting reading. When I reflect upon the practice of family law, an overriding sentiment is that truth is truly...